(c)  Terry Floyd Johnson, 2016  ( Zoua; the OutRyder )

Unconditional Love means just that, loving someone, as they are, and in, how they’re trying to be.

It became a professional term, when Carl Rogers, said of those doing therapy, if you can’t love your client, don’t do therapy with them, send them to someone else..

The question is does this work in everyday principles of life? The answer is yes, you can, if you accept the other person(s) as they are, and not by how you want them to be.

You’re trying to create a puppet, if you demand, someone be how you want them to be, rather than being true to themselves.

This doesn’t mean, we have to like everything about a person, but what we do love- is who they are, to their own ideas. We respect the person’s abilities to be and act in accord with their own beliefs and actions.

Unconditional Love is allowing yourself to love you, with Unconditional Love, and at the same time, be the same with friends, acquaintances, and people you meet, work with, etc..

We don’t have to agree with everything they believe and do, but we love them to support the positiveness in their life, and back their way of learning how to transform the negative, if  this is their choice, to do so.

Love yourself Unconditionally, be you, not what someone else, wants you to be. They want to control, and make you their puppet, so they can be proud, they created a puppet, and now, that puppet is their’s to play with.

Friends, are loved unconditionally; because they accept us, and though, they might like to change us, they step back, and allow us to be ourselves.

May the Microcosmic Force be with you, here and now!

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